When the majority of us consider the word love, we consider love, making love and having an incredible connection with another individual. When the majority of us wonder how we can add love to our relationship, we typically consider attractive nights filled with underwear, soft music and wine. However is that it? Not that there is anything incorrect with this variation, however is that the only option we have? Personally, I do not think so.
I’m not sure if I might be considered the most romantic individual around. I think I am, however who understands?
I think that anytime 2 individuals who like each other are able to spend time together doing activities that they both enjoy, that can be a form of love. Real, it isn’t really always the type of love that gets written about however that does not mean it cannot be romantic for the couple.
If you think about it, the good memories that we hold throughout our lifetime involve 2 significant styles: doing something we enjoy and/ or being with somebody we like. When you combine the something you enjoy with the somebody you like, I think that is perfect and I think that can be an (typically overlooked) way to add love to any relationship.
Naturally, the important distinction here is that is has to be something you both enjoy. It’s not really romantic if you want to go searching and your partner dislikes to hunt. Even if your partner consents to go, the love will be lost on her.
Select these “non traditional” romantic gestures carefully. Don’t misguide yourself into thinking that your partner delights in a particular activity when you know darn well, even if you do not want to confess to yourself, that they do not.
Another element of something that is romantic, once again in my viewpoint, is something uncommon. Years ago I knew a couple (to be sincere they were a little unusual) who wanted to boast that they had sex every night.
As expected, the spouse bragged about it however when I asked his partner if she really enjoyed it that much she stated no, it had become more of a routine and wasn’t really anything hot and interesting. She stated it became a little like brushing her teeth every night before bed … it became routine.
So, whatever romantic gesture(s) you want to do keep in mind that if anything is done frequently it ends up being routine. Something that is done typically will rapidly lose it’s strength and can end up being if not boring than at least not almost as interesting.
Believe about you and your partner and the things you both like to do. That can be immensely romantic.
When many of us think of the word love, we think of love, making love and having an incredible connection with another individual. When many of us wonder how we can add love to our relationship, we typically think of attractive nights filled with underwear, soft music and wine. Personally, I do not think so.
I think I am, however who understands? Believe about you and your partner and the things you both like to do.
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